The evolution of life history


The evolution of life history
The evolution has impacted in my life significantly by so many different ways. I faced so many difficulties and as well as worthy circumstances. Good moments go smoothly, but very hard to deal with bad moments. My child labor experience, bad financial condition, working in casino Nepal, computer education and career, and further advance academic education is amazingly outstanding experiences. As we know, there are many positive and negative things happen in the life. Some of them remain entire life, never forget. One of the things that I learned from the life’s experience is the attitude of never give up and accept the challenges until you get what you want the destination. We know that even small mistake makes big difference in life, and impacts the consequences to all other areas as well.
To begin with, I was born into a middle class family and low financial background with seven siblings. I went through very hard circumstances in my life and started child labor at 5th grade. Because of the low financial situation, I had to work since then. When I was in 5th grade, I started working at video parlor for first time and worked at same place for 12 years. I was very honest and hardworking child. I used to complete work assignments sincerely in timely manner without any rejection. One thing I still remember is that one of my cousins always turned me down because my hand writing was so bad although I was an indomitable person, and everybody liked me and my working activities.. He always criticized and dominated me on my handwriting, and I did not want to succumb. I took that as a challenge and my thought was “I would show you my excellent handwriting one day”. I started working hard on it. Everyday practice of writing could make a big difference.  After couple years, all consequences have changed. My hand writing became better day by day, and I started getting positive feedback and liked by many people. Finally, one day, the cousin said, “Oh your hand writing now looks excellent”. If he did not say that, my hand writing never would have become better. I realized that day that it could possible to turn the weakness into the strength. Beyond work, I was very fun loving and complete entertaining person. I like making jokes, talking to people, singing songs, and dancing. As I grew up, I became an important person within my group friends. If anything occurred, like problem or suggestion needed, all my friends came to me, and I provided them the right solutions.
After my high school graduation, I quitted the video parlor job where I worked since childhood. One day, I decided and opened my own business. Basically, the business is about video renting parlor like the blockbuster here in the US. Having worked in video renting parlor for 12 years, I became very familiar with all Hollywood and Bollywood film starts and movies’ synopsis. Because of not having enough business knowledge, it went only three years after that it stopped and I faced loss in business and that was one devastating moment. As I was born in low financial background family, there was always lack of money to anything even emergency situation. At the same time, my mother got sick frequently because she had asthma. She had health problem often, and every time all seven siblings got united to do something for her together. I love my mom so much. She was one of the greatest human beings in this world for me. Although she was uneducated, she never hurt anyone and everybody loved her so much. One of her predominant gifts was a cooking. Everybody was crazy about her cooking and wanted to eat the food that she cooked. Unfortunately, on one bad day, asthma attacked my mother so badly, and she became ill again. She was taken to hospital. After couple of days of treatment, nothing worked out well, at least, she died in hospital. That was another devastated day in my life. After being shocked by my mother’s death, I squandered the whole entire year. I started looking for a job. After being in job market for couple of months, I finally found a job in casino Nepal. As I was badly hit by financial debt, I had to work diligently as well as making more money to pay off. The job was tough as I had not enough education after high school. Although I was only high school graduated person, my indomitable spirit got me through the financial debt.
            I started learning computer with zero knowledge in 2001. I used to be wondered and amazed by hearing the email and the internet in 90’s. Hearing those words generated the excitements to get into it. I like learning new stuff especially in technology. I started learning Microsoft’s visual basic programing language at first. It was really hard for me to understand the coding and its uses. I should have taken prerequisites courses, but I just directly jumped into it because there was nobody to guide me. I knew one thing is that only things get better or easier if I work harder, so I paid more attention in class studies and pushed myself to work even harder out of class. As I constantly studying harder, it became much easier and able to complete all online exams. Finally, I became a Microsoft’s certified system engineer (MCSE). Then I migrated to the United States in 2003. I started working in Kroger as a cashier, and that was my first job in the US. I worked there for only six months then I moved to IT job as computer technician in Woodstock, Georgia. After finishing my system engineering from Microsoft, It was my first computer job experience in the United States. It was very nice experience and was like a dream came true. I used to tell everybody that I could make fifty thousand dollars per year when I was in back home. I moved to AT&T as software analyst as it was better one. It was quite challenging and transition because that was new field in IT. Because of my determination and hard work, the manager selected me as one of the best employees and I got raised salary. I made the highest salary ever in my life so far. The life was going smoothly with full of happiness, but the life never treats the same. Another turning point had arrived when I got laid from AT&T.
As one door closes, definitely God opens another, and that may be even better one. Similarly, another opportunity knocked into my life that my further education which was one of my biggest dreams. I started my further education at Georgia Gwinnett College in B.S. Information Technology – Systems & Security in 2011. I must say, this is the greatest opportunity that living with technological age and completing education in the field of information technology would not have been greater dreams for me. Last summer, I joined GGC; my English essay writing was so bad, because I did not have basic idea, sentence structure, and grammar. I used to scare of writing, and my nervousness starts attacking me immediately when comes to writing. I took English 98 and reading 98. I had an A in English 98, but I could not make it through reading 98 in exit exam. Since my English is second language, I was suggested to change route into EAP by professor, Christine Reilly, so I took English 0080, 0081, and 0092 in Fall 2011 and continued on taking remaining English courses in order to take 1101. In these courses I exclusively learned all my English weakness such as sentence structure, grammar and concept of essay writing. Basically, I started applying all rules when writing essay. I closed focused on them, so they got me helped increasing writing. Finally I made it through all them so well. My writing became significantly increased by the time the courses finished. Now, I feel more comfortable on essay writing. I have discovered and realized that writing could be very interesting and amazing feeling after studying the books - English for Academic Writing, Top 20, and grammar sense 4. One of above books named English for Academic Writing has the great source of learning “how to write essay academically”, so these have been a tremendous helpful to me in term of writing. one of the great process that I went through in writing was  understanding of eight parts of English speeches. Simple sentence, compound sentence, and complex sentence were the biggest helpful of writing. My writing habit increased amazingly after learning noun phrases and adjective phrases. I have enhanced my English tremendously after studying at GGC. I have gained a lot of confidences on writing and speaking English. I feel so good while writing and speaking nowadays. I know that there will be more advance learning English as it’s never stopped. Since I love learning grammar, I am ready to learn more in upcoming courses. Anyhow my aim is now to be expert in English writing and speaking. Because I am currently in English 1101 after taking so many English classes, I am enjoying and trying to put more efforts in order to make it happen.
            In conclusion, What started child labor in the past, what got an opportunity in casino job, what faced financial crisis in the past, what got computer education, and finally what started IT professional job in the US all has made tremendous experience in my life that never be complains to God. The life teaches so many things that we never ponder. Even I started my life with child labor that circumstances taught me, being able to understand critically and come up with the great solution is an amazing achievement. As everybody looks after money, I never crave for the money. God working behind me and favored in each disaster financial situation is one of the connection to my God. In addition, working in casino Nepal was great experience that I still remember some of amazing life learning techniques that never dies to me. Going through a lot of difficult circumstances forced me to get into it and come up with the winning solution. The life living with purpose was so meaningful, and I am one of having greatest purposes of living life. Completing a degree in information technology—focus on system security, working in IT industry, and becoming an entrepreneur is my aim and purpose of life.

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